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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-28 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2642 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2642 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Homestuck]


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[Michelle Lee]


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[Ping Pong the Animation]


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[Lord of the Rings]


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14. [SPOILERS for Pandora Hearts]



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15. [WARNING for sexual/emotional abuse]
















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(Anonymous) 2014-03-29 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
There's something that's always bothered me about this notion, and I am going to try to put it into words. Please bear with me.

Apart from family members, every person with whom you have a relationship starts out as a stranger. The first time you hang out with or go on a date with someone, you know very little about them. The first time you go over to someone's house, you still generally know very little about them. The first time you kiss someone, you still don't know too terribly much (I'm basing this off of the notion that most people kiss someone for the first time only a few dates in, and while a few dates is enough to know whether one piques romantic interest, it's not enough to really "know" that person).

In the process of forming relationships, we constantly expose ourselves. You can't form a relationship without exposing yourself.

On top of that, even if you get to know someone, that person might still wind up doing something horrible to you. Most assaults are not committed by someone the victim knew.

I'm not saying that it was wise of these girls to do what they did. But I really don't like the idea that there's something wrong and nonsensical about doing something with a stranger, or that it's more dangerous to do something with a stranger.

SA

(Anonymous) 2014-03-29 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
"Most assaults are not committed by someone the victim knew" should be "most assaults are committed by someone the victim knew." Good job, self, completely changing the meaning of that point.

Re: SA

(Anonymous) 2014-03-29 03:43 pm (UTC)(link)
how bout' both parties? the fault is always the attackers.... don't get me wrong about the attacked.... the attackers always picked the wrong victims... try satisfy your need at pointed receipent...

Re: SA

(Anonymous) 2014-03-29 08:43 pm (UTC)(link)
I wish I knew what you were trying to say.