[ SECRET POST #2643 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2643 ⌋

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Comments

Re: fandom friend advice

[(Anonymous)]

wooooowwww, do you view every conversation you have with friends as doing them a FAVOR by listening to them? what a sad fucking life you must have.

no. wait. what sad fucking lives anyone who's stupid enough to consider you a friend must have.

your analogy is also fucking stupid. this sounds more like OP made cupcakes and friend came along who doesn't even fucking LIKE cupcakes. but while they're shooting the shit as friends do about OP spending the day baking OP talks about how she feels about cupcakes so friend tries one. she unexpectedly enjoys it. then she goes and posts on tumblr about how she just had this delicious cupcake in a way that imlies she made the fucking cupcake in the first place.

OP: yes, you have to choose between letting it go, letting it fester, or talking to her. them's the breaks. just don't listen to assholes like this though about whether you're being irrational. sometimes it's the very faith we put in our friends that makes small slights hurt more than they should. that doesn't mean anything other than you're human and relationships are complicated and confusing since we can't read each other's minds.

Re: fandom friend advice

[(Anonymous)]

If I'm venting about a topic that "gets under my skin" on a regular basis to a friend, then yes, they are doing me a favor by listening. This is a nice thing that friends do for one another, but here's what you don't seem to get: it takes time and it's emotionally draining to be someone's outlet for their frustrations. It is NOT something people owe you, and OP should recognize that the friend is indeed doing them a favor by being a sympathetic ear.

If you don't understand that, then I suspect it's you who are the crappy friend, not me.

The analogy stands. We only have the OP's word for it that the friend doesn't really like cupcakes and just wants to eat them for attention. But if the cupcake is a cupcake that the OP isn't going to eat and doesn't want to eat, then it's silly for them to call dibs on it when someone else is willing and wants to eat it. Whether or not the friend actually like cupcakes is irrelevant.