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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-29 03:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #2643 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2643 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-30 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
What are "headcanons" anymore, even? I always thought that it meant "canons in your head" therefore things that you made up in your own little fantasy/fic land. But it really means things you think are real? I am seriously confused about that.

But yeah, I am agreeing with some below people. For certain things, it's okay to do things like headcanons, RPF shipping, tinhatting ONLY if you keep it strictly to yourself and your fandom space and not bug anyone else about it at all (that includes twitter/cons/TPTB for canon tinhatting, AND arguing with other fans who disagree.)

But I am never, ever going to stop judging people who say things about their sex lives. "Oh I bet ___ is a good lover." "I bet ___ and ___ have hot kinky sex after each show." "That's cum stains on his clothing!" I HATE YOU YOU CREEPY DISGUSTING PERVS THAT'S GROSS! Keep it to fanfic. ONLY FANFIC. So I don't have to read it!

Basically yeah. I think.

(Anonymous) 2014-03-30 02:01 am (UTC)(link)
Yes. Fans need to not post or tweet or message their significant ships to tell the people how much they KNOW or WANT them to be with someone sexually or belong with someone like a soulmate. Like no. I get it when there's a little fantasy going on and people can create crazy things via imagination (I do rpf myself but I keep it behind closed communities and don't advertise it or overthink it) but when you start obsessing about it and not seeing the reality, it's crossing the line.
There are things that just are not respectful no matter how hard fans try to justify their creepy actions.

For OP, some parts in fandoms are created to unleash the weirdest fantasies or are provoked and whether to stay or leave is a matter of knowing how far you really want to go and what's comfortable for you.