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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-30 03:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2644 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2644 ⌋

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Re: SOs, Fetishes, and You!

(Anonymous) 2014-03-30 10:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Sounds like Anon did the right thing. People are big on tolerance, but guess what? If something creeps you out, you can leave. Removing yourself from a relationship (especially when it's done civilly and in a mature fashion) is just fine. You don't need any justifications beyond not wanting to be in that relationship anymore and anyone who says differently can fuck off.

That said, the fact that anon's SO was obsessed to the point where they couldn't discuss anything else is not healthy. Kinks are one thing. When kinks turn into a hang-up and you can no longer communicate with anyone who isn't also into that kink, it's become a problem.