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fandomsecrets2014-04-01 07:03 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2014-04-01 07:03 pm
[ SECRET POST #2646 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2646 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Free! Iwatobi Swim Club]
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[Love so Life]
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[the last leg]
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[Karen Gillian/Doctor Who]
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[True Detective]
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[Yume Nikki]
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[Black Dagger Brotherhood Series]
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[Mass Effect]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 040 secrets from Secret Submission Post #378.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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(Anonymous) 2014-04-02 03:28 am (UTC)(link)And, apparently, a doormat.
Stop being a doormat. Stop giving shit to people who apparently don't give a shit about you if it bothers you so much.
But if you really want a friend, be a friend. If they don't "want what you know how to give" then you either need to find another friend, or reflect long and hard on "what you know how to give," what that really means, if it's what the other person truly needs, and if it's something you can afford to give. Spoiler: it probably won't be money.
I'm just going off of a really vague post so I'm really reaching here, but I'd also like to throw out there that giving anything doesn't entitle you to friendship, either. But that shouldn't keep you from showing kindness to someone else (without letting yourself get treated like a doormat, of course).