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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-01 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2646 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2646 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Free! Iwatobi Swim Club]


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[Love so Life]


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[the last leg]


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[Karen Gillian/Doctor Who]


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[True Detective]


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[Yume Nikki]


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[Black Dagger Brotherhood Series]


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[Mass Effect]


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Re: OP addenda

(Anonymous) 2014-04-02 03:48 am (UTC)(link)
I've read that getting people to do things for you actually bonds them to you more strongly than doing things for other people does. That's why trying to be the kindest, most accomodating person ever to the one you have a crush on never works. I guess doing we tend to become invested in people we do things for, but it doesn't really go the other way.

I'm not saying you shoud stop doing things for people (but I do think you should stop throwing money around as if you can buy friendship). Ideally, it goes both ways - we all give and take. You should start asking people for things - ask someone to go with you to a movie or a museum, ask someone for a ride, ask someone to pass you that pencil over there... be polite about it, of course, but start being a taker, not just a giver.

Ask your friend for a token piece of art, tell her you really admire what she's done, and ask if she'd be willing to talk about it and maybe discuss your situation a bit.