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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-01 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2646 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2646 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Free! Iwatobi Swim Club]


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[Love so Life]


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[the last leg]


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[Karen Gillian/Doctor Who]


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[True Detective]


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[Yume Nikki]


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[Black Dagger Brotherhood Series]


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[Mass Effect]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 040 secrets from Secret Submission Post #378.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
eaten_by_bears: Rodimus Prime, I am sick and tired of being responsible for the welfare of the entire universe and its outlying suburbs (Default)

Re: Things you thought nothing of at the time...

[personal profile] eaten_by_bears 2014-04-02 03:49 am (UTC)(link)
My best friend in high school.

All of my friends group had some kind of problem. And recreational drug use was popular at that school. But she cut herself a lot, and took a lot of drugs, and tried to kill herself more than once, and had an older boyfriend that took her out to a barn in the middle of nowhere where he and his friend fucked her. I knew he was a sonofabitch, and I would've beaten the shit out of him if she'd shown me who he was. (she only gave me a first name, and he went to another school)

What I didn't know because I was a kid is that she fit the classic pattern of a kid who'd been sexually abused by an adult. Just, a lot of the things she said and did, a lot of how she acted. And now that I'm grown up I wonder how the hell the adults around us could've missed it.

Re: Things you thought nothing of at the time...

(Anonymous) 2014-04-02 12:10 pm (UTC)(link)
And now that I'm grown up I wonder how the hell the adults around us could've missed it.

They probably missed it because you knew way more about her than any other person, let alone adult. It never ceases to amaze, and scare, me how much children keep hidden from adults. Even more so when it comes to teenagers.
eaten_by_bears: Rodimus Prime, I am sick and tired of being responsible for the welfare of the entire universe and its outlying suburbs (Default)

Re: Things you thought nothing of at the time...

[personal profile] eaten_by_bears 2014-04-02 12:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know. It wasn't just teachers and parents. She was in therapy, but it was all about how she was the problem. How she had to stop doing what she was doing. They never really touched on what might possibly cause some of these classic abused-kid-acting-out behaviors. I don't forgive them for that.