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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-05 03:24 pm

[ SECRET POST #2650 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2650 ⌋

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Re: Weird romantic question

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-04-05 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not that weird to not want to just leap into something because it seems like you should.

If I had to take a guess, the reason you're not as interested as you think you might otherwise be is because there's probably something you're detecting about her mannerisms or personality that doesn't really turn you on. If you have recently met her you just might be intuiting something about her that you would find incompatible despite all the physical attraction points lining up.

Having the hots for someone you wouldn't really get along with in a relationship isn't an uncommon thing by any means. If you're both the kind of people to be okay with it, maybe just have casual sex?

Re: Weird romantic question

(Anonymous) 2014-04-06 04:35 am (UTC)(link)
It's more the opposite issue, really. I feel like I'm MORE interested than I otherwise might be. Like, I'm convinced that there's something forced about my attraction to her, maybe it's just because she's queer and I haven't been with anyone in a while, and that's why I don't want to do this? It doesn't really make any sense but I can't shake that feeling. That's why I feel weird about it, I guess. I haven't felt like I think there would be something that wouldn't work between us because of her... like I said, the attraction is only getting stronger.

Unfortunately, casual sex isn't really something I'm into at this point in my life. :\