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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-05 03:24 pm

[ SECRET POST #2650 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2650 ⌋

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Re: Weird romantic question

(Anonymous) 2014-04-06 04:03 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not sure what you mean by arbitrary. To me, an arbitrary choice would be pursuing a relationship with a random person for no reason at all. You have reason: you're attracted to your friend, and you think she might be attracted to you. That sounds like a perfectly logical reason to pursue a relationship.

But it's up to you, OP. Do you think that if things change unexpectedly, you'd regret not giving it a chance? What are the best case and worst case scenarios if it worked out or didn't work out? Could you guys still be friends if it didn't?

Re: Weird romantic question

(Anonymous) 2014-04-06 05:19 am (UTC)(link)
None of my past relationships have been able to translate back into friendships. We always said we'd stay friends, but... it never actually happens, it's always too awkward. So I guess I'm worried about that, yeah. My past relationships were started by the other person, too, so this would be new territory for me, I guess.

I said it upthread, but I'm starting to think maybe part of the feeling comes from the fact that I've been single for a while now and she's one of the only single queer women I know, so part of me keeps worrying that's fueling the attraction instead of something real. So, arbitrary, I guess. You're right though, it isn't like it makes no sense to see where it goes. I just don't feel like I should.