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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-07 07:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2652 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2652 ⌋

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Re: Can anyone help me with this?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-08 05:55 am (UTC)(link)
Since the dawn of time, or maybe just since the 1890s or so, people have been using that "it's just a phase" thing to erase bisexuality from the map of human life. If it turns out to be true in your case, that's ok -- but you won't know that except in retrospect, and other people definitely can't know that for you.

Your uncertainty is ok. There's a really strong cultural construct around sexuality that we have to have Always Known or else it doesn't count, and that's probably pretty destructive.

Try not to worry about it too much. Date people if you want to date them; if it doesn't work out, then it doesn't. Don't pretend you're more sure than you are of your feelings -- you should probably talk about it with your maybe-girlfriend if you decide to date -- but don't dismiss them because of what other people say, either. You're a real person and all of your attractions and emotions are real right now, and they won't become not real if they change.