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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-14 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2659 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2659 ⌋

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fingalsanteater: (Default)

Re: I think I might've accidentally asked a coworker out

[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2014-04-15 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
Oh jfc. Just go as friends as you already seemed to have planned to do. You didn't mention you disliked her, so what's the problem? And, ask her if it's okay if you invite someone else before you actually invite someone else. Even if I'm going out as a friend I hate when the person I'm going out with tells me they invited someone else without me knowing. It's like, "Shit, my company not good enough for you?"

If it looks like she's leaning towards this being a romantic outing, you can tell her then that you are interested in being friends, not dating. But come on. You suggested it, you made plans. Don't be a fucking jerk and go hang out with her.

Re: I think I might've accidentally asked a coworker out

(Anonymous) 2014-04-15 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
You kind of sound like you took that personally.
fingalsanteater: (Default)

Re: I think I might've accidentally asked a coworker out

[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2014-04-15 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
I gave my opinion on the situation posed. By definition, one's opinion is personal. I answered from experience with a similar situation. That too is personal. So, what's your point?

Re: I think I might've accidentally asked a coworker out

(Anonymous) 2014-04-15 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
I see I was correct.
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Re: I think I might've accidentally asked a coworker out

[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2014-04-15 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
Your point was to be sure that I gave you a personal opinion, as would any other person to answer this thread? Congratulations.
Edited 2014-04-15 01:18 (UTC)

Re: I think I might've accidentally asked a coworker out

(Anonymous) 2014-04-15 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
That doesn't make me feel much better, to be honest. I don't know how to navigate this situation, and now I have to clear it with her before I ask anyone else (which would be just as awkward), or just be uncomfortable alone with her. Fuck, I suck at social situations. I never should have opened my mouth.

Re: I think I might've accidentally asked a coworker out

(Anonymous) 2014-04-15 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
Tell her a last minute thing came up and you're really sorry.
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: I think I might've accidentally asked a coworker out

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-04-15 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
Do they really need to ask her permission to ask someone else? since they already posed the question to co-workers
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Re: I think I might've accidentally asked a coworker out

[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2014-04-15 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
It's a nice thing to do. Since as far as she knows that it's only going to be them two. I mean, technically no, since he did pose the question to other people at the time. But the other people weren't interested and now she's under the impression it's not a group thing, I think it'd be nice.