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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-15 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2660 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2660 ⌋

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Re: advice for socially awkward people still in the closet

(Anonymous) 2014-04-16 06:55 am (UTC)(link)
is there an anime club on campus? gaming groups? A film studies department that does screenings? A creative writing department that does readings? A visual arts department that does gallery nights? A local comic book store that hosts watching parties for nerdy TV shows? You mentioned it was a small city, but universities often have interest/entertainment/creative groups for various massive-dork pursuits :) I don't know your situation, though, so I don't want to make too many assumptions.

You mentioned your friend -- do they live in the same city? would they be willing to go to some of these things with you? I know it helps with my anxiety to have a "safe" person along in situations where I don't know anyone.

Also seconding the anon below who suggested online communities; it can really help with the feeling of isolation.

Sorry to ramble. I don't know if any of this is useful, ultimately. There are many, many people like you out there; I hope you find some of them soon. :)