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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-15 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2660 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2660 ⌋

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Re: advice for socially awkward people still in the closet

(Anonymous) 2014-04-16 07:09 am (UTC)(link)
I'd recommend going back. I know it'll be tough, but think of it like this: the first time you went, everyone was thinking "Who's this? I don't know her." This time, everyone will be thinking "Oh hey, I remember her, she was here once before." So you're going into a LESS awkward situation, which actually requires less bravery. And clearly you've got some reserves of bravery to draw on. :)

Then, once you're there, ask "Hey, can anyone recommend some good movies with queer themes? Something I can actually relate to, not fake like [queer movie you don't like]. Maybe something like [queer movie you do like]? I heard [some other queer movie] is pretty good, do you think it's worth checking out?"

If the person you're talking to says "I don't really watch movies" you just say "That's cool; do you know anyone here who does? I really want to get some recommendations from someone who understands, you know?"

And then you're having a conversation about movies. You have trained your whole life for this moment, young one. :)