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⌈ Secret Post #2661 ⌋

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[Injustice: Gods Among Us]

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[Game of Thrones]

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[William Shakespeare's Titus Andronicus]

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[Welcome to Night Vale]

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[Crown of Stars]

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[Game of Thrones]

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[Blade Runner/Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?]

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[LOST]

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[Riff-Raff, Rocky Horror Picture Show]

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[Captain America: The Winter Soldier]

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[Breaking Bad]

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[Problem Sleuth]

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[Doctor Who]

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I guess whether it's "weird" or not depends: can you see yourself spending more time with him as time goes on and things progress in your relationship? When you really think about it, do you think that there's a possibility that you will grow tired of him no matter what, and that this might just be a way to elongate the process?

Most people want to be near to the person they're dating, and want to see that person often. There are some people who are cautious in the beginning stages of a relationship and maintain space as a result (I myself am one of those people), but they can usually envision a point in the future where they will no longer feel a need to maintain said space.

Most people, if they have a sense that a relationship is going to grow tiresome, end it rather quickly. They only continue dating the other person if they can see it going somewhere, and it "going somewhere" involves not growing tired of the other person.

Maybe you are "weird." But there's not necessarily anything wrong with that. The way you negotiate relationships might just be outside of the acceptable norm. However, I would say that if, when you think about it, you really can't see yourself growing more attached to this person or taking the relationship past a certain point, that you talk with him about it. Make sure he's on the same page as you. Otherwise, if he's "most people," then you might wind up hurting him.

[ SECRET POST #2661 ]

Re: Distance in a (new) relationship (Am I weird?)