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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-16 07:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #2661 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2661 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Injustice: Gods Among Us]


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[Game of Thrones]


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[William Shakespeare's Titus Andronicus]


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[Welcome to Night Vale]


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[Crown of Stars]


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[Game of Thrones]


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[Blade Runner/Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?]


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[LOST]


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[Riff-Raff, Rocky Horror Picture Show]


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[Captain America: The Winter Soldier]


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[Breaking Bad]


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[Problem Sleuth]


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[Doctor Who]








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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Distance in a (new) relationship (Am I weird?)

(Anonymous) 2014-04-17 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think you're weird. I met and married my husband while we lived a significant distance apart, and he still has to travel frequently. It was and now REALLY is more distance than I would have preferred, but I could always see the value in it in for letting us grow into getting to know each other, and getting used to each other, and learning to deal with each other at a gradual pace. I've had plenty of experiences with getting sort of tired of someone before emotions had time to deepen and good relationship patterns start to gel, and I think the inability to see each other every day for every little thing helped us avoid that and instead really make the absolute most of time we do spend together.

Re: Distance in a (new) relationship (Am I weird?)

(Anonymous) 2014-04-17 07:20 am (UTC)(link)
For the first 2 years, I lived in a different country than my (now) husband and we had to fly to see each other, roughly once a month. He still spends 1/4 of his time in a different country than me, for work.

It does make for a different relationship. I've stopped feeling that aching loneliness every time he leaves, but it's still intense every time he returns.

So it's not weird to have that kind of relationship. And it can work. But I didn't actually want to live far from my boyfriend, it was us making the best of a bad situation. Although we both still like our personal space and that's healthy too.

To be honest, if you don't have that many things in common with your boyfriend, and have difficulty thinking of activities together, it's going nowhere. Enjoy it while it lasts.