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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-16 07:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #2661 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2661 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Injustice: Gods Among Us]


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03.
[Game of Thrones]


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04.
[William Shakespeare's Titus Andronicus]


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05.
[Welcome to Night Vale]


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06.
[Crown of Stars]


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07.
[Game of Thrones]


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08.
[Blade Runner/Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?]


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09.
[LOST]


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10.
[Riff-Raff, Rocky Horror Picture Show]


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11.
[Captain America: The Winter Soldier]


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12.
[Breaking Bad]


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13.
[Problem Sleuth]


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14.
[Doctor Who]








Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 034 secrets from Secret Submission Post #380.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: How do you come out?

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-04-17 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
Nike slogan.

There's never going to be a "perfect" moment to tell someone this. Some people choose to write a letter that explains what they want to say, others just choose a moment where things feel relaxed and say what they need to say. Some people decide the least painful way to do it is to make an announcement at a big family get-together or tell the person who is likely to tell everyone else in order to get it out to as many people at once... other people choose to tell each person they feel they can trust individually in order to maintain more control over who knows what information about them.

There's no wrong or right way to come out to someone or a group of people. Being the shithead rebel kid I was, the way I came out to my dad (who had made some offhand comments about how everyone would hate me if I was gay) was by kissing another bloke in front of him, in public, to show him how much nobody gave a shit.

I just walked into the kitchen one afternoon and told my mom, out of the blue. No build up, no hinting, nothing.

It doesn't matter how you do it. It's just two words, minimum, and then it's over. And it's not that scary, I promise.