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case) wrote in
fandomsecrets2014-04-18 07:35 pm
[ SECRET POST #2663 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2663 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Stardust]
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03. [posted twice]
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[Elementary]
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[El Goonish Shive]
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07. http://i62.tinypic.com/29cxt2a.jpg
[Hadaka Shitsuji, censored porn]
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08. http://i.imgur.com/XGwxaCR.jpg
[cosplay; no sex but definitely nsfw]
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12. [ns]
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[Art by: http://www.deviantart.com/art/Lets-Sing-Together-338248375]
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17. [SPOILERS for Soul Eater]

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18. [SPOILERS for captain america: the winter soldier]
[WARNING for rape]

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19. [WARNING for suicide]

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20. [WARNING for incest, possible non-con]

Notes:
Late at work again, sorry. Should be back to normal by next week!
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Re: A situation and a question
If it felt abusive to you, it was. Everyday 'punishments' (like grounding or some chores) can turn abusive for a kid who perceives and lives differently in the world. So basically - if you feel like something harmed you, then it did. Maybe in the future, with age, with experience, with therapy (optional), you can decide that some things *weren't*, but for now, go with your gut.
Just try not to dwell - easier said than done, i know, but unless you feel like you need to confront and question them, then it's pointless to go over and over it in your mind. Better to just decide on a course of action to deal with it all and try to move forward.
Good luck!
(And for the record, it sounds controlling, creepy, and abusive to me, especially the 'berating' you for stuff you didn't even remember.)