[ SECRET POST #2663 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2663 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Stardust]


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[Elementary]


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[El Goonish Shive]


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07. http://i62.tinypic.com/29cxt2a.jpg
[Hadaka Shitsuji, censored porn]


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08. http://i.imgur.com/XGwxaCR.jpg
[cosplay; no sex but definitely nsfw]


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[Art by: http://www.deviantart.com/art/Lets-Sing-Together-338248375]


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17. [SPOILERS for Soul Eater]



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18. [SPOILERS for captain america: the winter soldier]
[WARNING for rape]



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19. [WARNING for suicide]



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20. [WARNING for incest, possible non-con]

















Notes:

Late at work again, sorry. Should be back to normal by next week!

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Comments

Re: A situation and a question

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

I grew up with a very controlling, abusive parent, so I understand how difficult it is to explain just exactly why this thing that happened was so traumatizing. Um. I mean, outside viewpoints are good. I'm not saying that you shouldn't discuss it with others. I see a therapist regularly, and she manages to somehow take my jumbled ramblings and untwist them and speak them back to me in a way that finally makes sense. So I get that.

I think, though, that you should not concern yourself too much with people not taking you seriously when you think that you experienced something abusive. It's hard for people to understand other people's emotional experiences, even when they are good emotions. You just go with what works for you, you know?

Re: A situation and a question

[diet_poison]

I have literally never heard of anyone who wasn't a major troublemaker being monitored and even then with a blow-by-blow? that strikes me as weird.

I don't know that much more about the situation, but from the little info I have it does seem weird.

Re: A situation and a question

[darkmanifest]

Having every single move you make (outside of prison, house arrest, or a treatment facility) in order to criticize and not protect you or others is unnecessarily controlling and therefore abusive from my perspective.

Re: A situation and a question

[tabaqui]

My parents were emotionally abusive and I am still trying to determine which parts were actually abuse and which parts were actually normal things that I shouldn't hold against them.

If it felt abusive to you, it was. Everyday 'punishments' (like grounding or some chores) can turn abusive for a kid who perceives and lives differently in the world. So basically - if you feel like something harmed you, then it did. Maybe in the future, with age, with experience, with therapy (optional), you can decide that some things *weren't*, but for now, go with your gut.

Just try not to dwell - easier said than done, i know, but unless you feel like you need to confront and question them, then it's pointless to go over and over it in your mind. Better to just decide on a course of action to deal with it all and try to move forward.

Good luck!

(And for the record, it sounds controlling, creepy, and abusive to me, especially the 'berating' you for stuff you didn't even remember.)

Re: A situation and a question

[insanenoodlyguy]

I've done work in schools. Reports going home is pretty standard. Usually in my experience though they aren't as detailed as your describing, tend to be more of a paragraph or unless there was a specific incident of note (like somebody having a meltdown or being in a fight)

Even if you did have some unusually thorough person though, no way are they meant to be used like that.