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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-19 03:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2664 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2664 ⌋

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Re: RANT THREAD - GO!

[personal profile] ginainthekingsroad 2014-04-19 09:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Why do my friends take forever and half to plan any gathering ever? Even if it's something like, "I'll have to wait until [date] when I know what next month's schedule looks like", it's polite to let the person who asked about availability know that within a week or so of the initial invite, right? It causes me undue anxiety NOT KNOWING if I can plan other things around us going to the Ren Faire on a given May weekend, when I asked on April 2.

I love these people, but their lax scheduling and timeliness habits pain my soul.

Re: RANT THREAD - GO!

(Anonymous) 2014-04-19 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Not only do you have my sympathy (up until recently I had a job with weird scheduling, but I always made sure people knew I might not be able to commit to things until the last minute), it seems like it's almost always Ren Faire that causes the biggest problems with my schedule-challenged friends, too.
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Re: RANT THREAD - GO!

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-04-20 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
I cannot empathize with this enough. Like, I get that not everyone is this way, but it makes me kinda anxious/depressed to go into something big with no planning, it is upsetting when something changes/cancels at the last minute, it's upsetting and guilt-inducing when I find out about something at the last minute and can't go, and stress-inducing if I go but wasn't planning on it and it takes time away from something else.

Basically, I'm an obligate planner and it's frustrating to deal with people who never like to plan. It's one thing if someone forgets a detail, but people who always set things two days in advance? Stressful.