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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-22 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2667 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2667 ⌋

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Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2014-04-23 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
I think you and your buddy both need to chill out.

Are romance movies great? Not most of them. Is idolizing Katherine Heigl a good thing? No. It's pretty clear that your friend is a little delusional, but I agree with AYRT that she'd find something else to glom onto if romance movies didn't exist. (It's not like romance novels haven't existed for 200 years or anything...)

This also doesn't deny that romance movies are generally female-centric, and they are literally the only way some female filmmakers can even stay in the industry. Some women have even seen their characters altered by producers to be almost unrecognizable when the movie comes out.

And seriously, don't police what your friend should watch/not watch. If YOU don't want to watch movies she likes, tell her it's just not your thing. If she presses you, or you feel like the relationship is just not even in the "hear her complaints" situation, maybe it's time for bygones to be bygones and let her go.