[ SECRET POST #2669 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2669 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Sexuality

[(Anonymous)]

Oh man, I could've written this! I've been thinking about this a lot lately.

I've never understood why "how much interest you have in sex" is also considered a part of sexual orientation. I've always viewed sexual orientation to be "the sex/gender/whatever you are interested in having sex with". But "how much sex you want" is just a measure of your personal sex drive, isn't it? Not your orientation? For example, I'm like you--I pretty much consider myself straight, but I know I have a very low interest in having sex myself, and I'm still a virgin.

I don't know. I wish I had a better response, but I got excited since I haven't really found anyone else who feels like this. orz

Re: Sexuality

[(Anonymous)]

I've never understood why "how much interest you have in sex" is also considered a part of sexual orientation.

I think because asexual people have no interest in having sex.

Re: Sexuality

[pantswarrior]

But what makes someone asexual is that they are not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender. Therefore the lack of interest naturally follows, but it's more a side effect than a qualifier.

Re: Sexuality

[(Anonymous)]

Not exactly. It means we don't actively seek sex, but a good number of us wouldn't necessarily turn it down, whether bc sex can feel good or bc we want to please our partners.

Re: Sexuality

[(Anonymous)]

Well, if you view sexual orientation as "the sex/gender/whatever you're interested in having sex with", then asexuality would be "no one".