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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-29 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2674 ]


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Re: Sticky situation

(Anonymous) 2014-04-30 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
It's certainly possible.
The non-dickish options I can see, which do depend on both your SO and your friend:

Try going poly. This is the hard mode option. And a lot more dependent on the other people.

Talk to your SO about your feelings for your friend. Make sure you let them know you still love them, and see if they have any suggestions or might be okay with being conditionally open.

Talk to your friend about it. Let them know you've got some feelings, and since you don't want to break up with your SO, you might need to be a bit distant for a little while while you sort your own shit out.