[ SECRET POST #2683 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2683 ⌋

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Comments

[chardmonster]

Hey. You need to make sure there isn't a problem with your guy. You're saying he might have a "low libido" but he might just be saying that. Make sure you actually check. And then initiate stuff anyway.

[diet_poison]

this seems a bit presumptuous

[chardmonster]

It is and it isn't.

Guys often won't tell you there's a problem. That's all. So check. Make sure it's actually low. Have him confirm that.

[(Anonymous)]

This. It sucks but it happens.

I've known a guy who had a "low libido" because he was cheating with every single girl they could get their hands on. He still cheats, and still has a "low libido" with the official girlfriend.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, just assume that it's high and jump straight on. Just because she says she's not interested doesn't mean you can't initiate stuff!

You see where I'm going with this?

Some guys have a low libido. It's a thing. It happens. Not every guy is an out of control sex fiend who wants to fuck everything that moves and if it doesn't move then he'd still consider it.

[chardmonster]

I, uh

Do you know what initiating means? I suspect you don't know what it means. Apparently you think it means rape, which kind of indicates you've either never actually been in a relationship or are a moron.

[ceebeegee]

Initiate just means make the first move, right? As in, hey, are you interested, in the mood, leaning forward to kiss, whatever.

[(Anonymous)]

Yup, exactly. So I have no idea what the anon above is talking about.

Every kiss, cuddle, or subtle "I want you" cue doesn't have to turn into sex, but it lets your partner know you're interested if they are in that moment. Low libido =/= never touch them in an affectionate/romantic way ever.

[(Anonymous)]

Agreed.

Guys with low can be not interested, in a temporary stress situation, or even (unfortunately) experiencing the first signs of medical conditions (both thyroid and pituitary tumors, even if benign, can really throw things off. Trust me, I know this from personal experience.)

[mautradutor]

May not be good to start things, then, however. It's much more rare for us to be made ​​to feel bad about it, but there are some guys who do and close up even more for it.

Talking about all this is really the most important thing.

[(Anonymous)]

It's kind of hard to just 'initiate' stuff when you yourself have a low libido.

-someone else who has a low libido due to BC pills.