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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-14 07:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #2689 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2689 ⌋

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[personal profile] ketita 2014-05-15 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
It's funny, I've read the scenario that you're describing and it actually annoys me no end. It doesn't matter how much you care about somebody, most people, if they get jilted for somebody else, will feel kind of unhappy and betrayed, at least for a while. Being able to set aside that unhappiness in order to play relationship counseling? That's basically sainthood.

I've always found those fics to be unbelievable in that they treat the canon love interest as an author stand-in and basically reduce them to egging on the Pure Love with the (usually slash) other ship, instead of like a character with their own life and desires.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-15 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
Ayrt

I suppose I'm not explaining myself properly. Here goes, like in one of my fandoms, there's a character that was clearly supposed to be a love interest but they didn't get together. Nobody did. She cares for him, yes, but I highly doubt she'd feel betrayed her jilted if her love interest got together in a fic with someone else. I'd think she'd be supportive and I'd love fic that doesn't leave out their friendship and just completely writes her out or worse.

Plus, it isn't like the fic has to start with them breaking up or act like they got together in canon in the first place. And I know what kind of fic you're talking about, it bugs me too. I'm talking about fic where their friendship or previous relationship isn't erased or downplayed. They can still be a fully fleshed out character with their own needs and desires yet still be supportive of theor friend. Granted, not many authors can pull it off.

I hope I explained myself a bit better. If not, then I'm not sure how I can convey what I mean.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-15 07:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Really, really depends on the nature of the relationship. I was thrilled when my ex started dating someone else after we broke up because the breakup was due to me not having as strong feelings for him as he did for me. I was glad he found someone who liked him back just as much as she liked him.

(They got married, ultimately, so she was a much better choice for him than I was.)