[ SECRET POST #2705 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2705 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Nostalgia Critic, Sailor Moon]


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03.
[Sailor Moon]


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04.
[Jessica Chastain]


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05.
[Homestuck]


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06.
[The Musketeers]


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07.
[Absolutely Fabulous]


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08.
[Disney's Big Hero 6]


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09.
[Neil Gaiman and Amanda Palmer]


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10.
[Revolution]


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11.
[Disney Fairies; character is Vidia]


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12. http://oi57.tinypic.com/28jg5l.jpg
[kind of pornish, illustrated]


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14. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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15. [SPOILERS for Transistor]



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16. [SPOILERS for Hannibal]



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17. [SPOILERS for Star-Crossed]



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18. [SPOILERS for Captain America: The Winter Soldier]



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19. [SPOILERS for Hannibal]
[WARNING for rape]



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20. [WARNING for rape]



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21. [WARNING for abuse]



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22. [WARNING for rape/non-con]






















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #386.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom]

12. http://oi57.tinypic.com/28jg5l.jpg
[kind of pornish, illustrated]

[insanenoodlyguy]

Oh don't worry lass. There's a shitload of guys that want just that from you.

[(Anonymous)]

What he said. Look for the guys who are exhausted from the pressures of being the big strong alpha male, and need to be something else for a little while.

[kaijinscendre]

OP, I have nothing to say about your secret but where in the heck did you find that reaction image? I tried to find it for like half an hour a couple days ago with no luck.

op

[(Anonymous)]

It's from the Overconfident Alcoholic meme comic strip:

http://i2.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/011/307/Screen_Shot_2012-09-13_at_9.39.39_AM.png

[(Anonymous)]

Aww, anon! *hugs* I'm a very dominant woman, not a submissive bone in my body, and I LOVE big tough badass submissive men. I'm dating a guy right now that looks like a big burly viking warrior and he's on his knees at the snap of my fingers. This will ABSOLUTELY not ruin your sex life and sexually submissive men very much exist and it's great fun. You'll be okay, and good luck. :)

[elaminator]

Mmm, that Thor/Loki fanart.

ANYWAY, I don't think you should freak out! There are certainly guys out there that are into dominant women, you just have to find one.

[(Anonymous)]

so that's who that was...thank you hmhmhm

[(Anonymous)]

Good fucking luck, OP.

[littlestbirds]

You sound a lot like me tbh. Don't worry about it. Not only are submissive men not rare at all, in my experience the people I click with are usually interested in the same sexual dynamics as me.
I don't know where you've got this idea that all women are expected to be submissive, but any sexually active adult who thinks all women are turned on by the same things isn't worth your time.

[diet_poison]

I don't know where you've got this idea that all women are expected to be submissive

...culture? society? it's EVERYWHERE

op

[(Anonymous)]

It's a mix of influences; movies where the female characters destroy themselves just so they could attract and keep men (faking orgasms anyone?) , the way men in real life seem to rave about all women wanting to be dominated (feeding into the idea that most most heterosexual men want a submissive partner)...

[(Anonymous)]

This is a lot of self analysis. Not saying it's bad, but, OP, you dig deep. Nice secret design!

For me it's more of a self-insert, but I can say that submissive guys is a very broad term. Like, are they submissive in bed, in relationship, in life? Is he submissive in small matters on in big decisions also? To only one person or to most people? I know a girl, who's bf is kinda submissive in their relationship, at least I got that impression. It happens, why not?

Also, personally I wouldn't like in my life the things that I like in fic.

[(Anonymous)]

Like, are they submissive in bed, in relationship, in life? Is he submissive in small matters on in big decisions also? To only one person or to most people?

Yeah, people often are not either completely dominant or completely submissive across the board in all aspects of life. You can't be entirely certain what they want in bed based on how they behave, say, at work or other social situations. I once heard a suggestion that a lot of guys who act very dominant in their public lives often want to be dominated in bed. Maybe that's why I find myself drawn to guys who are less dominant in public, because I assume they might be satisfyingly dominant in bed!

[diet_poison]

Sounded to me like OP wanted dominant in public but submissive in bed? At least, in loose terms?

[philstar22]

This is very true. I like men who are submissive in the bedroom and my equal in the rest of life. Some women like men who are submissive all the time. You just need to find the right one for you.

op

[(Anonymous)]

[Like, are they submissive in bed, in relationship, in life? Is he submissive in small matters on in big decisions also? To only one person or to most people?]

In every day life I'm very easygoing and breezy. I don't impose my will on others simply because that would be no fun. The dynamic I'm talking about is purely sexual. I don't keep company with people who can't or won't be my equals socially, but matters 'of the heart' are a whole other arena >>

[ariakas]

You "ukefied" characters to the point that they were OOC and didn't make you popular in fandom?

Huh.

[(Anonymous)]

You'll find them, don't worry. Maybe some guys are reluctant to admit it but I think most of them have an occasional Domme fantasy in there somewhere, and some want one full time. ;)

[(Anonymous)]

Don't be ashamed, OP. I really envy you. I'm the reverse: I'm really assertive and usually appear to be kinda dominant, so people expect me to be a top. And I'm painfully aware I'm not. Not only am ashamed of being a sub, but it also makes sex really awkward. I mean, I can pretend to be a top but nothing turns me off more.

[(Anonymous)]

Have I been making secrets in my sleep? Because I have the exact same issue. Except I don't really care about relationships, but I still feel like a weirdo for having these preferences. It's also the reason I get so irrationally angry when men (or anyone really, though I mostly see this sentiment from men) say ALL women are submissive and want to be controlled and dominated in the sack. Bleh, no thank you.

[eaten_by_bears]

Honey, honey. Take a deep breath. Things aren't really so black and white. What someone looks like doesn't say anything about how they fuck, and there are literally millions of masculine men who love to take it like a good boy from their girlfriends.

When you start dating, just be clear and honest about what you want, and you'll find a good match.

[philstar22]

This is completely me too anon. There are guys out there. I haven't exactly found one yet, but they do exist.

Also, while I don't ship Thor/Loki on account of the incest, submissive!Thor is the best thing ever. I've read a few sub!Thor/dom!Steve fics that were the best things ever.

[(Anonymous)]

You could start by not buying into bullshit stereotypes about gender and what it means to top and bottom.

To OP

[(Anonymous)]

I am a female dominant who really only likes submissive men, and it took me a while to come to terms with it because my society/upbringing told me my "place" was to submit to a man. My experience has been there are plenty of "alpha male"-seeming men who are very willing to submit.