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⌈ Secret Post #2705 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Nostalgia Critic, Sailor Moon]

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[Sailor Moon]

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[Jessica Chastain]

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[Homestuck]

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[The Musketeers]

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[Absolutely Fabulous]

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[Disney's Big Hero 6]

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[Neil Gaiman and Amanda Palmer]

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[Revolution]

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[Disney Fairies; character is Vidia]

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12. http://oi57.tinypic.com/28jg5l.jpg
[kind of pornish, illustrated]

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14. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]

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15. [SPOILERS for Transistor]

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16. [SPOILERS for Hannibal]

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17. [SPOILERS for Star-Crossed]

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18. [SPOILERS for Captain America: The Winter Soldier]

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19. [SPOILERS for Hannibal]
[WARNING for rape]

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20. [WARNING for rape]

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21. [WARNING for abuse]

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22. [WARNING for rape/non-con]

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I'm a woman who also gets off on the idea of dominating a man, but I want to dominate physically... which I know is pretty much impossible. Even a really weak guy would be at least as strong as me, or close enough.

Tying them up doesn't really do it for me, either, because I know they have to let me do it and it ruins the whole thing. Worse, I'm a reasonably attractive young woman and every time I've wanted sex with a guy he's been all YES PLEASE! Trying to pretend he was "resisting" or I was "making" him do anything would just be comically ridiculous.

Sometimes I fantasize about being a really unattractive but hugely strong middle aged man (think one of those World's Strongest Man types) but gay, so I could go around physically dominating other gay men >>

tl;dr, woe is me, my fantasies will never be reality

Hm... If you're in a long-term relationship (where you literally sleep together), maybe you could ask your lover if he'd be okay with you randomly tying him up one night. That way you could do it while he's asleep, and thus he wouldn't be "letting you do it". You could also ask if he'd be willing to get really drunk -- and consequently less physically able.

Well,

a) If you're doing this irl with real people, people are always going to have to "let" you do it anyway. Even if you were physically stronger than someone, they'd be "letting" you dominate them to some degree in a consensual scene, in that for example they'd agree not to like, grab some physical implement that might be nearby and bash you in the head with it, or try to gouge your eyes out, and so on.

b) In terms of fantasies, why not fantasize about drugging someone, then?

I guess potentially you could also consensually drug someone in real life, but you'd have to be careful about what you were giving them and all that.

OP wants to be STRONG.

Alternate methods of domination aren't going to be the same.

Steroids?

GET PUMPED

My best friend is a small woman, but she's probably stronger and could kick the ass of your average joe.

You could try learning some wrestling/judo type moves.

Oh yeah good call, Judo has a lot of techniques especially good for a smaller person fighting a bigger person.

Yeah, this, it's entirely possible for a well-trained woman to overpower a regular, untrained man. It'd take some time, but OP can get there without extreme measures.

Oooh, thanks! I hadn't really thought of that. If it's really possible to pull that off with wrestling techniques I would definitely be willing to give that a try. (It sounds sexy as hell, too.)

You'd be surprised what strength training can do. Men and women's strength is more like a set of overlapping bell curves than two totally distinct points.

And I'm a big fan of talking through the details of a scene well before you do it. That way you can hash out all the details (pretend you don't want it, it turns me on, etc.), but you can stay in character while it's actually happening.

well the size difference between you is a factor, but I sometimes hold my BF down during sex. He could probably throw me off if he really wanted to, but when I have the leverage to hold his arms and his neck at the right angle it would be a struggle for sure. It also depends how much you want to be resisted, I guess.

I'm sorry OP. That sucks.

For me the fantasy is the letting me dominate them part. I get off on physically strong men who could easily overpower me but choose to submit. It feels more powerful to me to have that kind of power over a guy (or girl), the kind of power that makes that person want to submit to me. The stronger the person and the more easily they could overpower me the more I get off on it.

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