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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-11 07:16 pm

[ SECRET POST #2717 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2717 ⌋

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Re: Do you really believe there's someone out there for everyone?

[personal profile] elaminator 2014-06-12 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
Nicely said. I agree; I think no matter how much you love someone there's always going to be something you don't like about them, or things you can't agree with them on. People are too complex for anything else. But that doesn't mean you can't find someone that you won't be able to make it work with, if you put in the effort.

Granted, not everyone might be so lucky, but I do feel like for everyone there's at least one person (or even several) that would be a reasonable 'match' if the circumstances were right.

(Then again, since I assume we're talking about romantic relationships, some people just aren't into that. Even then, yea, if we're talking about someone you can care about and connect with without romance I feel the same.)
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Re: Do you really believe there's someone out there for everyone?

[personal profile] lunabee34 2014-06-12 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
Yep yep yep.

I feel like it is time to trot out my old "love is a verb" refrain. LOL I agree with everyone saying that loving someone doesn't mean you'll never disagree or have problems. Being in a love is a choice to continue despite those things.
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Re: Do you really believe there's someone out there for everyone?

[personal profile] elaminator 2014-06-12 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
You're right! I feel like the whole 'loving someone doesn't mean you'll never disagree or have problems' thing is so obvious, but I know when you actually get into a relationship and start to have those problems it can be harder to remember that. Still, if you want to make things work it takes time and compromise.
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Re: Do you really believe there's someone out there for everyone?

[personal profile] lunabee34 2014-06-12 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
Preach it, my friend. :)
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Re: Do you really believe there's someone out there for everyone?

[personal profile] a_potato 2014-06-12 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
This is very true. Love takes work and determination.
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Re: Do you really believe there's someone out there for everyone?

[personal profile] rubbertea 2014-06-12 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
luck really is the key to happiness (and basically everything else). or rather chance. circumstances is a word i'd like to have thought of as well.

yeah, there can be several people that you could build a stable relationship with. you could even be in a long time relationship with someone, or single and looking for love, while on the other side there's someone you'd be more 'compatible' with. and they're not waiting for you, and you'll never know what you missed out on. i guess it's sad in a way, but since you'll never know, it's not like you'd care. that's the difference between the real world and wish-fulfillment soul mates fanfic.

we're talking about romantic relationships, but it could also apply to friendships. i'm sure there are people i've never met who would be awesome to hang out with, and others i'd hate after one five-minute conversation.
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Re: Do you really believe there's someone out there for everyone?

[personal profile] elaminator 2014-06-12 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
while on the other side there's someone you'd be more 'compatible' with. and they're not waiting for you, and you'll never know what you missed out on.

Yep, that's the way the world works sometimes. I agree it is a bit sad, but like you said, you'll never know so...what difference does it make? Dwelling over that kind of thing could drive one mad, so it's best not to.

Same. Or, again, people that you have met but because of circumstance didn't talk to much or properly introduce yourself to. There's no telling what you could have been to someone.