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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-11 07:16 pm

[ SECRET POST #2717 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2717 ⌋

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Late day at work, sorry!

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Re: Do you really believe there's someone out there for everyone?

[personal profile] a_potato 2014-06-12 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
I think it is possible for everyone to find a compatible match. There are a damn lot of people in the world, and none of us is really all that unique.

But here's the trouble: it actually takes some effort to find one of those people. It involves putting yourself out there and taking risks and opening yourself up to heartache and rejection. It also involves becoming the sort of person that someone else would like to be with (and that doesn't mean changing your interests or your tastes. It means being able to step outside of yourself and truly treat another well).

I'm not trying to cast aspersions, so forgive me if it comes across that way. You probably just haven't come across someone yet who meshes with you, and that's normal and okay. But trust me when I say that you aren't as weird as you think you are. I guarantee that there are people out there who are even weirder than you, and I also guarantee that there are people out there who are just your level of weird. It might just take you awhile to find them.

So take heart. And also, as hard as it may seem, try not to worry about it too much. There's so much to enjoy about life, and being in a relationship is a very small part of it.