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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-04 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #2740 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2738 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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03.
[Fargo]


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04.
[The Dark Tower]


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05.
[Free!]


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06.
[Edge of Tomorrow]


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07.
[Iggy Pop]


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08.
[Sarah Jane Adventures, Quantum Leap]


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09.
[Captain America: The Winter Soldier]


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10.
[Kamui Cosplay]


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11.
[Marvel Comics]


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12.
[Deep Space Nine]


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13.
[Sarah Jane Adventures]




























14. [repeat]


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15. [SPOILERS for Infinity Gauntlet]



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16. [SPOILERS for Smallville]
[WARNING for suicide]



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17. [WARNING for suicide]



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18. [WARNING for rape]



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19. [WARNING for suicide]





















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #391.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-04 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
OP, there's only so much you can do for someone else when they have issues. It's not about being mean, it's about looking out for your own mental health as well. Help them as much as you can, but if they're not willing to help themselves, or help you help them, then your only two choices are to break away or let them break you.

You are not a bad person.
elaminator: (Firefly: Inara & Kaylee)

[personal profile] elaminator 2014-07-04 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
IA. Doing what you did doesn't make you a terrible person, it means you have a sense of self-preservation. And honestly, some people just don't want help, or won't take it even when you offer it. You can talk yourself blue in the face but it someone isn't ready for help then you aren't going to make a difference. That isn't your fault at all, and again, you obviously did all you could before cutting contact with her. It's alright; you have to think of yourself too.