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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-06 04:04 pm

[ SECRET POST #2742 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2742 ⌋

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Re: Rant Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-07-06 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Eh, personally I tend to be the kind who just needs to vent and not get suggestions offered, so offering suggestions would get shot down because that's not what I need/want.

Then again, I also usually know what I need to do to fix the situation [or that I'm in the wrong, but am too pissed off to care at that time].
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Re: Rant Thread

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-07-07 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
As someone who is very similar to you, anon, I've had it pointed out to me more than once that constantly venting to the same person can be really wearing. And I've also been on the receiving end of similar situations (not necessarily venting, just really dependent-seeming constant talking). I think Sarillia's position is understandably frustrating.

Re: Rant Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-07-07 05:01 am (UTC)(link)
My view is that if anyone is taking up my time and energy with their selfish venting, they can damn' well listen to my suggestions or STFU.
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Re: Rant Thread

[personal profile] philstar22 2014-07-07 05:35 am (UTC)(link)
I think everyone needs to be able to just vent, though. Personally I hate it when people offer me suggestions when I don't want them. But generally I say up front I just need to vent and am not looking for suggestions. And I'm also the person everyone I know vents too. I see it as reciprocal because I'm the person who listens to everyone else's rants and offers supportive comments without suggestions because that is what I want in the same situation.