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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-06 04:04 pm

[ SECRET POST #2742 ]


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Re: Things you plan on doing when/if you have kids

(Anonymous) 2014-07-07 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
-Let them fail. If you bubble-wrap kids from birth and never let them be sad or let-down, how are they gonna deal when you cut the apron strings and they go off on their own? I appreciate that my mom and dad never forced me to do things I hated, but I think if they'd pushed me a liiiiittle more out of my comfort zone I think I wouldn't have as much issues trying new things now.

-Let them look silly. My mom (who is awesome, don't get me wrong) always corrected my attempts on styling my own hair and told me to change if my clothes were too over the top...but I've seen kids going around in superhero capes or tutus, and they are cute as fuck and happy as clams.

-Give them options for extracurriculars. Kids need down-time so not a lot of activities at once, but I did a different activity every year until I settled on soccer; while none of them stuck I was grateful that I got to try them.

-Let them have and care for a pet. It's a kind of responsibility that has its own reward.

-Make sure that whatever church we go to has a nice Sunday School program; the church I grew up in was great for an adult, but the childcare wasn't the best so I wasn't too happy there as a kid.

-Get them involved in some kind of charity/volunteer work; exposure at an early age to the ideal of helping others in any way we can.