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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-06 04:04 pm

[ SECRET POST #2742 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2742 ⌋

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Re: Whelp!

(Anonymous) 2014-07-07 05:11 am (UTC)(link)
it's not wrong to crush on people when you're dating but holy hell the way you've worded everything makes you sound like a creep.

you threw in a rather insincere self-depreciating, "why do I have to be such a piece of shit?" and then followed it with creepy descriptions of this girl as being hot and cute and "all around perfect"– ayyy protip: it's not her 'fault' that she's attractive and a nice person. blaming women for your attraction is creepy, even if it's done in a 'joking' manner.

and frankly the way you've worded it comes off as a plea for backpats that this is normal and you're fine, rather than actual advice. limit your interactions with her if you feel you have to, and for god's sake stop thinking about how 'perfect' girls who aren't your gf are, that pedestal worship is not cute.