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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-06 04:04 pm

[ SECRET POST #2742 ]


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Re: Things you plan on doing when/if you have kids

[personal profile] pantasma 2014-07-07 07:03 am (UTC)(link)
My parents did the second one. They threw in a few, "You're entitled to your feelings," lines, but they made it clear they love me. They never showed it, if it got to them, either.

If chilluns happen, by whatever method, I would try to do as well as my parents did. I would try to raise them as individuals, to have their own thoughts and feelings that are still sympathetic and empathetic with those around them. My parents did a great job, always making me feel like a full person even while I was growing and learning from them.

Also, talking about love and relationships (all of them, not just romantic), and sex. I knew more about development and sex than anyone else my age -- even my teacher, in grade 10 when she was doing sex ed -- and it helped a lot. Especially since I knew I could go talk to my parents with impunity, even if I squirmed and got SO AWKWARD while I did it. xD