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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-13 12:43 pm

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F!S Anon Meme (the Tenth?)


Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required (for those who struggle with captchas and stuff).
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

That's about it!

List of General Threads (for easy access!)
a. Vid Rec thread
b. Positivity thread
c. What do you think of other F!S members?
d. Best Comments thread
e. Canceled Shows thread
f. Confessions thread
g. TMI thread
h. Which fictional character would you be...
i. "Is this offensive?"
j. In the good ol' days of fandom...
k. Popular fanfic you don't like
l. Really weird things you read in fanfics

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 07:24 pm (UTC)(link)
The male posters here dominate the conversation and get cults of personality in a way they never would if they were women.

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 07:28 pm (UTC)(link)
you mean there are male posters besides case and dethtoll?

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 07:34 pm (UTC)(link)
noodles and ill-omened

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-07-13 10:39 pm (UTC)(link)
And me. But no1curr about me.
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Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

[personal profile] comradesmiler 2014-07-13 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey..

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-15 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Hush. Everyone knows you're an anthropomorphic roller coaster.

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 07:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Likeee?????

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 07:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Any examples? That hasn't been my experience with the comm at all.

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 07:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Only male posters I can think of are case, ill_omened, dethtoll, and herpymcderpy, but I do agree they get more attention than your average female poster. Case doesn't really apply though, since he's the owner and all.

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 08:04 pm (UTC)(link)
The posters you're referring to also post a damn lot and one is the moderator of the site and have been here for-fricken-ever.

Yes, they dominate certain conversations, but it has nothing to do with gender.

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 08:06 pm (UTC)(link)
case is the mod

ill_omened only really gets attention for law enforcement-related stuff and related strong opinions which don't reflect the average F!Ser

dethtoll also with the strong opinions regarding games and sports and music

noodles deliberately seeks attention by trolling

i think it's less that males get attention and more that there are more individual males than females who tend to deliberately seek attention out or voice polarizing opinions

case in point: in this thread nobody notices queerwolf, mechanosapiensomething, cbyrguywhosenameicantspell, herpymcderp, mavericksomething, and feotakahari. who i believe are also all guys.

meanwhile the "what do you think about fs people" is dominated by female users that people recognize and remember.

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 08:08 pm (UTC)(link)
fyi, I'm pretty sure feotakahari is genderqueer.

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 08:11 pm (UTC)(link)
oops. sorry.

point was we only notice the loud people for being loud, not for their gender, anyway. im sure there are other guys here who are quiet.
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Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

[personal profile] dethtoll 2014-07-13 09:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Or anon -- I'm fairly certain a few anons who've attempted to troll me have been male. (Chief among them the one who said I must have been raped by Neil Stephenson since I hated him so much, and then did not understand why I was angry with him.)

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 08:15 pm (UTC)(link)
exactly

it doesn't have to do with gender, it has to do with how people post

stella has a similar reputation to dethtoll, because they both post very similarly. on the other hand, all the people you mentioned have a different reputation because of how they post. its just that several people who post controversial opinions a lot are also dudes.

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 08:40 pm (UTC)(link)
this.

comradesmiler and missing_y are also dudes, right? and gondremark I think? And eaten_by_bears. they don't get any more attention than the average user. it just happens to be that a few of the Big Names are guys.
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Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

[personal profile] dethtoll 2014-07-13 08:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Actually, my strongest opinions regarding music are fairly limited. I used to be more strident and opinionated, but as I got older my tastes in music kept changing too rapidly for me to be an asshole about it. (Except dubstep and certain old dadrock bands)

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 08:08 pm (UTC)(link)
I honestly wish we would utilize our male members more, like asking them questions about certain topics or what certain things are like for men.

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 08:20 pm (UTC)(link)
...

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Hell yes.

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 08:23 pm (UTC)(link)
why?

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 10:00 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT

I think the threads where guys get asked stuff are pretty interesting to read to see what they think.

Re: What do you think about other F!S members?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 08:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Look at the users people are mentioning in this thread, dude: the overwhelming majority of the are female. The one male poster who is routinely being mentioned is dethtoll.

I honestly think you just have some sort of beserk button that gets hit whenever you come across a man here, and so they're occupying an outsized portion of you memories of this place.