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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-14 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #2750 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2750 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-14 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Here's when you approach the ex-ass-kisser, and make mention of the fact that you went through the same thing, and ask if he needs to talk. Be the bigger person until you've created a harem of ex-friends of that person, and use your army to destroy him/her.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-14 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Why? She's not worth that kind of effort especially when she's so conveniently self-imploding.

Living well is the best possible revenge. Live well, OP.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-14 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes OP, live well with your harem of ex-friend's friends.



I thought the use of harem made it obvious I was joking but I guess not.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-14 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Harems are taken very seriously here.
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[personal profile] iceyred 2014-07-14 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Why not just create the harem, have an orgy, don't invite the toxic asshole, but make sure they know what they're missing out on? They still get the misery of being a friendless asshole, but you get an orgy out of it!

OP

(Anonymous) 2014-07-15 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
The funny thing is, that when a different fandom friendship collapsed (for different reasons) my ex-friend decided she was going to befriend all of the people who we both had issues with, in some sort of weird revenge plot. I think she was trying to create a harem of ex-acquaintances, but it only made her look like a two-faced bitch. This particular ex-friend that I refer to in the secret isn't worth that kind of effort.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2014-07-15 06:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I've seen that happening more than once.
After a while, people see through it. At least people who get burnt in their own time.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-15 03:15 am (UTC)(link)
Nah. It sounds like a nifty idea on paper, but in real life when you've escaped a den of toxic people, it's better not to go back in if you can help it. And why would anyone want to cultivate the acquaintance or even fake-friendship of an asskisser? OP's already doing it right by sitting back, enjoying the popcorn-worthy show and not having to deal with any of those assholes.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-15 07:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Actually, I'd recommend staying far away from anyone you knew then and anyone who's still friends with any of them.

And really, the only way to be the bigger person is to let it go completely. Absolutely no revenge planning like in a Hollywood movie: that would be losing, not winning.

The only way to win such a bad situation is to walk away, not hang around any of these people who were involved in any way, even simply by association. Trust me on this...