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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-24 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #2760 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2760 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Penny Dreadfuls]


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[True Blood, Game of Thrones]


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[Tamora Pierce]


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[Free!]


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[Ed Sheeran and Taylor Swift]


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[Masterchef]


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[Game of Thrones]


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(Anonymous) 2014-07-24 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Can't say I know the personality of either person, but if you like one so much, why assume that he's wrong? He knows her personally, you don't. Seems awfully vindictive to dislike a person you don't actually know and hate on her friendships.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-24 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
You've never had a friend who is friends with/in love with/dating/married to a loser asshole? That's very fortunate then, but I think you'll find this is really, really common. Being likeable isn't the same thing as having good judgment.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-25 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
But the difference is that you don't personally know either person.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-25 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
No, but that's not particularly relevant when speaking in general terms. You can like someone very, very much, but it doesn't mean everyone else they hang out is going to be cool, in your opinion. That's just life, and it applies to Ed Sheeran and everybody else on the planet.

Note: I'm not saying OP is right, just that it's not impossible.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-25 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
Eh. I've seen too many Nice Guys and Nice Girls (or in extension, the friends of Nice Guys and Nice Girls who get a watered down version of events) use that as an excuse to dog on their crush or their crush's gf/bf. Confirmation bias tends to cloud people's judgment on who is an asshole and who isn't.

It's really a case by case thing and isn't nearly as common as the stereotype that nice people date jerks would have you believe.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-25 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
It's a common excuse, I agree. However, I've had plenty of friends to whom I am not attracted and do not want to bang/be in a relationship fall for a jerk who treats them badly. I'm happy in my own relationship, but one of my best friends (we are both female and straight) has a husband who is a major douchecanoe. She knows my feelings on the subject, just as she knows that if she ever needs me, I'll be there.

It's sad, but it happens.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-25 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
Hey hey you you I don't like your girlfriend!