[ SECRET POST #2770 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2770 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Your Age Vs. How Old You Look

[(Anonymous)]

People are not obliged to be doormats to each other. That doesn't mean there's no obligation to behave like a civilized human being in public and show some reasonable consideration for others. Sounds like your teenage self had the idea better than you do now.

Re: Your Age Vs. How Old You Look

[(Anonymous)]

Assumptions, much.

Re: Your Age Vs. How Old You Look

[comma_chameleon]

Where's the line between doormat and reasonable consideration though when what people think SHOULD be done in certain situations is going to vary from person to person?

Like, personally I don't think line cutting should be attempted in any situation other than, "I'm buying medicine for me/my kid/my spouse and they're in the car vomiting, I need to get them home." Most other situations (I'm in a rush etc) to me are not excuses, because in my personal experience a lot of the people in rushes are rushed because they didn't plan shit out.

Obviously there are exceptions and unexpected things happen, but this just all boils back to, "everyone's going to have a different idea of where that doormat/reasonable consideration line is".

Re: Your Age Vs. How Old You Look

[(Anonymous)]

Mmm, yeah, I take it you have never been lectured on manners by a complete stranger in public because they feel they have the right and sanctimonious duty to correct the child on her behavior. I'm a grown woman and I do not deserve to be given manipulation tactics by people who reason away their own asshole-ishness by blaming it on the unthinking child. Even if it's as little as someone hurrying through the line. If I see someone in a rush and I'm not, I will let them through on my own sense of kindness. Having it demanded of me because I owe some kind of respect because I have a young face? Fuck no.

Re: Your Age Vs. How Old You Look

[diet_poison]

Er, they weren't being a jerk though? Sounded like what they were talking about was more the doormat thing and people assuming they owed them something when they didn't.