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⌈ Secret Post #2776 ⌋

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I've thought some horrible things about people when I was angry.

...because you hated someone for doing nothing to you? And then took those thoughts and posted a nasty secret about them for all to see?

Thinking is much different from writing it down and dressing it up for presentation. Sure, it's anon, but this is someone OP claims to be in a relationship with. And it's worse because SO did nothing to deserve it, didn't backstab OP, didn't cheat on OP, didn't run over OP's dog, didn't punch OP in the face (well, judging from the secret, I guess OP would like that sweetly), nope. SO is having nasty things written about him for being his naturally vanilla self.

This secret is a lot more revealing about OP's life than you may think.

Maybe not a punch but lots of women are into being slapped.

That's a comforting fantasy for abusers, imo.

http://dirtydiabolikloversconfessions.tumblr.com/

You've only proven that might apply if they're into shitty abusive reverse anime harems and that's hardly half of the population.

It's still lots of women.

Nah, Diabolical Lovers flopped.

Because it wasn't faithful to the game. The game is an undisputed success.

Maybe, but fujoshi VN players are still a tiny section of the world's population.

It's an otome and it's still lots of women.

What is the difference?

In otome the male cast is 100% straight, in love with the heroine and the heroine is the self-insert for women who are into that kind of thing.

Doesn't that just makes it a subset of VNs, then?

Re: I feel bad for the guy you're with...

(Anonymous) - 2014-08-09 23:22 (UTC) - Expand

(Anonymous) - 2014-08-09 23:46 (UTC) - Expand

You're saying you don't think people have kinks? A slap in the context of explicit negotiations and safewords is a lot different than a slap because a guy is pissed off.

Those women are dumb cunts who hate themselves and need help.

That's misogynist.

I know being a woman doesn't make me exempt from misogyny but fuck it, women who like getting beaten are fucked up. Also, anecdotal evidence, but it doesn't help that most of the ones I know who get off to that are extremely damaged or have daddy/confidence issues.

Getting lightly slapped is not getting beaten. Surely you know there are degrees to pain and violence? Why do you immediately assume the worst?

Both are horrible to me. I know YKINMK and all that, but I will never understand people (especially women) who get off to any kind of violence inflicted on themselves or rape. And I'm aware some kinks are inexplicable, but a lot of them are rooted in deeper psychological issues.

The latest Journals of Sex Research prove you wrong, though.

I still can't help but be swayed more by personal experience than statistics, but have any links to these? Genuinely curious.

When someone says "genuinely curious" they never mean it.

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/25/magazine/25desire-t.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0

I'm aware of that, but I honestly meant it. Thanks for the link.

Dude, people are complex. Please stop projecting your insecurities on OP.

I fail to see how that is projecting insecurities onto OP.

Maybe you need to reread OP's secret.