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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-09 03:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #2776 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2776 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-08-09 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
If there are particular qualities you want in a partner, it's your responsibility to seek out a person with those qualities. Latching onto whomever is available or strikes your fancy and then resenting the fact that he or she didn't magically turn out to be everything you wanted but refusing to break up and try again will just make you miserable and it will be your fault. There entire point of dating/courtship/getting-to-know-one-another is to see if this is someone you might actually want to be with for the long haul.

(Anonymous) 2014-08-10 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
If there are particular qualities you want in a partner, it's your responsibility to seek out a person with those qualities.

This needs to be emblazoned across the sky in technicolor neon over every major city in the world. None of this "our eyes will meet and we will fall instantly in love and be perfect for each other" nonsense that most people believe, these days. That mentality is exactly how people end up in OP and their SO's situation.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-08-10 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
Yes.