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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-12 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #2779 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2779 ⌋

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Re: Confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-08-13 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
It was only my second time ever, and first time with him sober, but I've not exactly admitted that I'm a complete novice and I don't know what the fuck I'm doing. I guess now that I think about it, part of my anxiety comes from the idea that the cat might be out of the bag.

Your comment has made me feel a little better though. Thanks.
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Re: Confessions

[personal profile] a_potato 2014-08-13 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
Is this a guy you like and want to have a relationship with, or is it just someone you've started hooking up with?

Re: Confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-08-13 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
I like him a lot, but it's only a casual thing. We've been on a few dates and get on pretty well but neither of us want a serious relationship.
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Re: Confessions

[personal profile] a_potato 2014-08-13 01:55 am (UTC)(link)
Ah, okay.

Hrm. I'd say not to worry about it too much. Bad sex happens to everyone sometimes (even between partners who usually have very good sex), and lack of experience really isn't a deal-breaker (otherwise, how would anyone ever get experience?).

Everybody starts out as a virgin.

(Anonymous) 2014-08-13 07:39 am (UTC)(link)
Everybody starts out as a virgin. Great lovers are taught.

Communication is the standard recommendation. Tell him where your clit/g-spot/whatever is. Point out if he's pushing too hard, or you can't feel anything.

You are doing fine. This is normal.

Re: Everybody starts out as a virgin.

(Anonymous) 2014-08-13 04:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Seconding this. Also, give yourself permission to have a little fun exploring his body. Try different ways of stimulating him, see what's fun for him, what's fun for you... enjoy experimenting a bit. Sex is a skill like any other: talent's nice to have, but study and practice will get you a lot farther.