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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-12 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #2779 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2779 ⌋

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Re: Confessions

[personal profile] a_potato 2014-08-13 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
My husband once told me of the worst sex he ever had. The girl just laid there and did nothing. He asked her if she was okay; she said she was. He asked her if she wanted to stop; she said she didn't. He asked her if there was anything he could do for her; she said there wasn't. But she wouldn't participate. He felt so sad and uncomfortable that he ultimately had to stop. So, to answer your question...that is bad sex.

Re: Confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-08-13 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
Oh dear. D: I don't think this was *quite* that bad. I have no instincts for sex at all really, so I'm totally winging it, but I know enthusiasm is important and I made an effort to not just lie there.

I think mostly it was down to him - he's not very big (which obviously he can't help, so I'm not going to hold it against him) but there was also nowhere near enough foreplay and on the whole it felt kind of sloppy. I didn't even realize he'd come until he said so. I don't know why I should feel embarrassed about all of this though. I guess because I like him as a person so much and I find him so nice-looking, I thought it would be a lot better.

This turned super TMI, sorry about that.
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Re: Confessions

[personal profile] a_potato 2014-08-13 02:01 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, no worries on the TMI!

But yeah, that...makes it sound like he doesn't know what he's doing, himself. Maybe you can get him to put on the brakes next time so you guys can be a little more exploratory? Approaching sex with a curious mindset is a good way to start figuring out both what you like and he likes.

Anyway, I'm sorry for the suckage, man.
Edited 2014-08-13 02:02 (UTC)

Re: Confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-08-13 02:07 am (UTC)(link)
I'm starting to wonder if he hasn't been lying about the amount of experience he has. Which, if he has, the irony is brilliant. I'm going to try and talk about it more with him next time - I kind of went in there assuming he knew what he was doing since he's supposedly slept with quite a lot of women. >_>

I'm kinda starting to see the funny side of this now and I feel a lot better about the whole thing. Thanks for talking this out with me!
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Re: Confessions

[personal profile] a_potato 2014-08-13 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
Aw man, I hate it when guys talk a bigger game than they've got. Hopefully talking about will get things on the right track.

And I'm glad you're feeling better about everything, anon! :)