[ SECRET POST #2790 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2790 ⌋

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Comments

Re: So.....

[(Anonymous)]

If a parent tells a child they are worthless so often that the child begins to believe it's true, is that not classic abuse?

If someone with low self-esteem commits suicide because they're being bullied, are they not a victim, because they were "depressed in the first place?"

Rock-bottom self esteem often has causes. Emotional abuse is still abuse.

Re: So.....

[(Anonymous)]

Children cannot get engaged, because they are stupid and susceptible to shit adults are not

Re: So.....

[(Anonymous)]

You...don't understand how abuse works do you?

I mean, by your logic, if a woman stays with her abuser it is her fault. She is a joke for staying with him.

Re: So.....

[(Anonymous)]

Women and men are not children. Calling them name is not abuse.
Are you mentally ill?

Re: So.....

[(Anonymous)]

One name isn't no but over a long time it is

I'm not mentally ill are you? because you sound kind of weirdly unempethetic.

Re: So.....

[(Anonymous)]

http://www.counselingcenter.illinois.edu/self-help-brochures/relationship-problems/emotional-abuse/

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm

hth

Re: So.....

[(Anonymous)]

Calling someone names can definitely be abuse.

Over a long time, the victim comes to believe they're worthless. Also, the abuser usually cuts their victim off from their friends and family, bullies them into not leaving the house without them, and tells them that no one else would have them.

Unfortunately, those who were past victims of abuse tend to be drawn to what they already know, ie again seek out abusers. It can be baffling to those outside. It's still abuse.