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Re: So.....
(Anonymous) 2014-08-23 09:05 pm (UTC)(link)Re: So.....
(Anonymous) 2014-08-23 09:21 pm (UTC)(link)I mean, by your logic, if a woman stays with her abuser it is her fault. She is a joke for staying with him.
Re: So.....
(Anonymous) 2014-08-23 09:27 pm (UTC)(link)Are you mentally ill?
Re: So.....
(Anonymous) 2014-08-23 10:15 pm (UTC)(link)I'm not mentally ill are you? because you sound kind of weirdly unempethetic.
Re: So.....
(Anonymous) 2014-08-23 10:18 pm (UTC)(link)http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm
hth
Re: So.....
(Anonymous) 2014-08-23 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)Over a long time, the victim comes to believe they're worthless. Also, the abuser usually cuts their victim off from their friends and family, bullies them into not leaving the house without them, and tells them that no one else would have them.
Unfortunately, those who were past victims of abuse tend to be drawn to what they already know, ie again seek out abusers. It can be baffling to those outside. It's still abuse.