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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-27 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2794 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2794 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-08-27 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm fairly certain my son is going to grow up to be a rapist.
He's got his fathers shitty weak genes, lives in the rape culture of the modern era whichshows no signs of improving, and hates his sister, and I keep finding his internet history. He has a disturbing interest in anti-woman smut. I'm doing my best to make him grow up right, and it's not like I think he's a lost cause or anything, a parent can't think like that, but I don't think he's going to be capable of being the rare non-shitty adult male.
TLDR sometimes a mother just knows which child will let them down.

(Anonymous) 2014-08-27 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Holy shit, mama. You need therapy. "The rare non-shitty adult male"? And you wonder why your kid looks at anti-woman smut?

(Anonymous) 2014-08-27 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Do you expect better from the radfem troll?

(Anonymous) 2014-08-27 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Disregarding the patronizing "you need therapy" comment, could you explain how my wanting him to grow up respecting women leads to him degrading women?

(Anonymous) 2014-08-28 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
Could you explain how your man-hating attitude is even remotely healthy for your son?

(Anonymous) 2014-08-28 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
And that wasn't patronizing, BTW. I honestly think you need therapy.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-08-28 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
It's not you wanting him to grow up respecting women that is the problem.

It's you writing him off as a rapist before he has even done anything that is worrisome.

(Anonymous) 2014-08-28 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
Depends on the way you do it. What you've said thus far has you sounding exactly like the kind of bitter-over-men, resentful-of-children mother that rabid MRAs whine about growing up with in their forums. Those types of guys come from somewhere, after all.

(Anonymous) 2014-08-28 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
I find the "father's shitty weak genes" part to be more disturbingly interesting, myself. I can see an argument being made for most men being some amount of shitty, but genes, whaaaaa? What do genes have to do with anything in this context??

(Anonymous) 2014-08-28 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
It's just a trollish argument, so you can't expect it to make much sense. But it does beg the question: if caring!mom OP of this thread recognized them as shitty weak genes, then maybe she should have thought twice before choosing to procreate with the owner of the shitty weak genes.

(Anonymous) 2014-08-28 06:21 am (UTC)(link)
I was just suddenly reminded of Metal Gear Solid, personally. Maybe she means he got "all the recessive genes!!1" LOL

(Anonymous) 2014-08-27 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Radfemtroll you really gotta vary your post structure if you wanna fool anyone.
Besides the stupid radfem opinions, everyone can tell its you because you don't doublespace paragraphs.
Like this.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-08-28 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
Holy shit - with that attitude, he just might.

How old is he even?

And the stuff you mentioned doesn't mean jack. Plenty of kids hate their siblings, and lord knows a lot of us would not want to be judged by our internet history.

Seriously, if your kid is showing bad behavior, for heaven's sak - talk to him, parent him, don't write him off as a criminal before he even did anything.
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[personal profile] ibbity 2014-08-28 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
oh radfem anon

sometimes I think you don't even bother to try anymore

(Anonymous) 2014-08-28 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
I know this is a troll, but if you really feel this way about your son, sit him down and give him "The Talk." Tell him why the type of porn he's watching doesn't really reflect sex in real life, explain to him how consent and being a respectful partner works, and try to point him towards some alternatives that are less degrading to women.

I would also recommend getting a marriage counselor to help out the situation between you and your husband. If you're pissed off at him, either try to communicate how you're feeling, get outside intervention, or just suck it up and divorce him. If you just sit there seething with rage, that's only going to make the problem worse. You NEED to communicate.