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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-30 03:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #2797 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2797 ⌋

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Re: Sex Question - TMI warning

(Anonymous) 2014-08-31 06:13 am (UTC)(link)
That is completely normal. All bodies are different, and your story seems similar to a lot of others' that I've heard. Like the anon above said, the best thing to do would be talk with your gynecologist, but if you're reluctant to do that, you might try: using (or using more or a different kind of) lubricant, trying a different position, working your way up from smaller toys/dildos to ones the size of your partner, or doing Kegel exercises.

Your vagina's a muscle (actually, a bunch), and everyone's default is different. My own is very tight, and yours might be too, just naturally. It might have also changed as you grew older and/or your hormone levels and so on shifted. The articles are right in that pain during sex shouldn't be a thing unless both partners are aiming for that, but they mean it in terms of communication and making sure there isn't some kind of wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am thing going on. Since it's your own body's reactions that you're not happy with, they aren't really applicable.

Bottom line is, talk to your doctor, who will be able to help you much more than a stranger on the internet. But you are definitely in the range of normal, and it doesn't sound like there's anything horribly wrong. :)

Good luck, anon!