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and even in my OWN AU setting fic, my OCs are in a way a part of/participants in the new setting and community the characters are in and at NO point do any of my OCs 'stand in'for or replace Danny Phantom characters. Nor do I EVER intend for them to.
There's a difference between going AU and Fifty Shades.
and besides...most of my issues with 50 Shades are the poorly researched BDSM relationship that the author REFUSES to acknowledge as fucked up and abusive.
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(Anonymous) 2014-09-14 08:33 pm (UTC)(link)There's also another difference, you've not filed off the serial numbers, and cc published it for profit either. You keep it as fic from what I've seen.
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That's what its meant to be really.
I mean the setting is a world I've created from an original thing. But I created the world before the fic...and the original story is VERY separate from the fanfic's story.
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*sigh*
Okay I miswrote that. The problem is not that the relationship is abusive. It's that EL James refuses to admit that the BDSM practice in her story is abusive and inaccurate, glorifying a harmful relationship.
Also the whole series is basically: "But I can CHANGE him" : The Novel. That's...kind of a dangerous mindset.
I don't care if people enjoy abuse in their stories. Just as long as they'll admit it IS abuse.
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(Anonymous) 2014-09-15 12:49 am (UTC)(link)but that mindset is part of the fantasy and it turns true in the book
it's called good ol' narcissism and it's really satisfying
so unless you first recognize it's not abuse that turns out bad you're not going anywhere really
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Also it makes the BDSM community look bad if people think 50 Shades is 100% correct. That's the problem. It's not just 'shaming people'
It's not wanting people to get hurt because of poorly researched BDSM. I think everyone can agree that preventing people from ending up in an abusive relationship is a very good thing.
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(Anonymous) 2014-09-15 01:09 am (UTC)(link)You probably shouldn't bother, tbh. This has been discussed to death before on here and neither side gets anywhere.
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The behavior, though? Yeah, that's why my fiancee and her husband ended up on the Safety board for the BDSM group in their local area; it was formed primarily to deal with 2-3 members who were regularly behaving predatory towards, again, especially young, new women. They didn't really have rules priorly, because the original group founders had the "oh, but that doesn't happen here" mindset that is both infuriatingly common and wrong. The behavior is dead-on and to those of us in the BDSM scene who aren't beset with the aforementioned rose-colored glasses, fucking scary in its accuracy.
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(Anonymous) 2014-09-14 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)how desperate.
*cringe*
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(Anonymous) 2014-09-14 11:13 pm (UTC)(link)And they also conveniently ignore the fact that anon is the one looking embarrassing here. Masters of The Universe (the fic 50 Shades used to be) DOESN'T EVEN HAVE /REVOLVE AROUND OCS.
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