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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-22 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2820 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2820 ⌋

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Re: I just need some perspectives

(Anonymous) 2014-09-22 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
To some people $600 is a lot of money and can really change how they budget and live their life. And it can effect not only right now, but yes even seven months from now. I think your friend sounds like she's making a really solid adult logical decision to her issues, and you're being kind of a selfish person to push her on this and make it a big deal. I know if it were me I'd feel pretty shitty having to tell someone about my money issues and explaining why I couldn't go to a super fun event only to have them continuously push and bring it up.
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Re: I just need some perspectives

[personal profile] queerwolf 2014-09-22 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
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Re: I just need some perspectives

(Anonymous) 2014-09-22 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I haven't brought it up to her. She told me this morning, and I haven't brought it up at all to her since.

Re: I just need some perspectives

(Anonymous) 2014-09-22 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Okay, it was just the way you wrote your post that made me think you were bringing this up with all of your solutions to helping her out. But that's good if you haven't brought it up, especially if it's only been this morning.

I'm coming at this from a person who has had to cancel fun plans with friends because of unforeseen spending and living on a very tight budget, so I'm a bit biased on that regard. And while I can understand your disappointment at not going with your friend to this awesome event, I do still think you're being rather selfish in the face of a responsible decision your friend has made. Respect her decision, and while it's totally okay to feel upset, realize that this isn't about you and she's probably pretty bummed about missing out as well.

Re: I just need some perspectives

(Anonymous) 2014-09-22 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
No, I promise, I haven't said anything about it, and when she noticed I was feeling down, I told her it was something else; I don't actually want her to feel bad about it.