[ SECRET POST #2825 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2825 ⌋

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Comments

Re: I'm worried I might be gay.

[(Anonymous)]

Feelings are stupid, kissing is awesome, labels are optional. You rock on with your own thing.

Re: I'm worried I might be gay.

[chardmonster]

>labels are optional

Are they? People say this all the time, but good luck finding a date or an affinity group if you refuse to use labels.

I tell people I'm bisexual because "I go both ways" sounds cheesy and "queer" would make people think I'm a Queer Academic which brings along with it a lot of baggage that doesn't fit my scholarship.

Hell, I don't even tell people out in the real world I'm bi, and I'm STILL thankful for a damn label.

Edit: Sorry for derailing op.

Re: I'm worried I might be gay.

[(Anonymous)]

I used to think that you seemed pretty cool and confident, but every time anyone says anything to encourage other people to be confortable with their own identity, there you are with some bullshit about how 'lol nobody actually thinks like that, blah blah blah, real world'. It's obvious that you're insecure and taking it out on random strangers, and I'm sorry that the world hasn't treated you as kindly as it could have, but this? Is just pathetic.

Re: I'm worried I might be gay.

[chardmonster]

Nobody's treated me poorly when it comes to this.

All I'm saying is that labels are useful and "fuck labels" is usually said by people who have one and are comfortable with it.

Labels are comforting. There's a reason people worry about finding them. Defining yourself helps you come to terms with yourself. Finding out that there's a name for what I am beyond "confused and messed up" helped more than you can understand. It's the difference between viewing sexuality as a problem or as a status.

Re: I'm worried I might be gay.

[(Anonymous)]

I think going around saying "I reject all labels" is a lot more insecure than saying "I embrace the label that applies to me."

Re: I'm worried I might be gay.

[dreemyweird]

+1. Chard isn't trying to make anyone uncomfortable with their identity.

Re: I'm worried I might be gay.

[(Anonymous)]

I think you're misreading her.

Re: I'm worried I might be gay.

[(Anonymous)]

not that I don't disagree that chard can be an asshole at times

this is not one of those times

she's making a good point. labels are USEFUL for a lot of people.

Re: I'm worried I might be gay.

[(Anonymous)]

Agreed.