[ SECRET POST #2860 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2860 ⌋

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Comments

Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?

[(Anonymous)]

whenever my brother says something shitty or acts like a selfish asshole, my parent's response would always be "just ignore it"

and then they'd get mad at me for reacting to him
and i was always like: "why are you mad at me? why aren't you mad at HIM for being a little shit?"

it still pisses me off. because i don't understand what it accomplishes, other than to teach him that being awful to people has no consequences.

but, you know, now he's an adult and he's even more of a manchild and a selfish asshole. so he hasn't learned anything.

Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?

[diet_poison]

That's really frustrating. Sounds like your parents are no small part of the reason he's still a jerk. :(

They say my brother is just a little late to mature and he'll change. He's still only 23, so they may yet be right. And they do try, just...I feel they are less concerned with fairness and more with artificial peace much of the time. But my brother (who is not the person I originally wrote about, just your story made me think of him) is a good-hearted person so I hope they are right.