[ SECRET POST #2888 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2888 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 060 secrets from Secret Submission Post #413.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 (rape) - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom]

NS, NF, etc.

[ 1 (rape) - not!fandom ]

[(Anonymous)]

What on earth makes people like OP think this is fandom related?

[(Anonymous)]

Fandom = sex?

[(Anonymous)]

They don't, they just forgot to paste in the usual perfunctory tenuous connection. It isn't like it is that different from so many secrets on here, all about the submitter and nothing to do with the alleged fandom.

[(Anonymous)]

Rape has a really big fandom. An all pervading fandom in some cases. Lotta guys out there a fan of rape.

[(Anonymous)]

Secrets like number four.

[(Anonymous)]

I've only ever seen real discussions of rape in women safe spaces and fandom, so I can see why they thought it was apropo

[feotakahari]

But if he punches you in the face and knocks out some teeth, you can get the police to care when you press charges. That wasn't necessarily the case fifty years ago.

[(Anonymous)]

What the hell?

[(Anonymous)]

Oh, nonny. You made a classic error. All you had to do is pick a character name at random and add "or any other man" and you'd have had made it out of the fail!bar. Come on now, it isn't hard to get a secret that is about the sender and has no fandom connection at all published here on F!S just by adding a random name. You fail so hard that it is embarrassing when you can't even meet the ridiculously low requirements for publication.

[(Anonymous)]

exactly

it's a very simple, procedural thing

you don't even have to name a character, you could easily have just said "or imagining a character doing this" or something and it would have been fine

just jam it in on the bottom row in bold type

[visp]

Well, your secret basically boils down to "I only want to be touched in a certain way by people who I want to touch me," which does involve consent. Otherwise, how would you stop people from touching you the wrong way, or in a way that didn't feel good? Or how is he supposed to know the right way to touch you without some communication from you?

[(Anonymous)]

I think the secret is an answer to all those tumblr posts about what is the only acceptable way to consent. It seems only detailed verbal consent ("Yes, I want to have sex with you right now and it has to be on the couch") is real consent or something.

[(Anonymous)]

Hi there, you must be that one anonymous 50SoG stan who uses the word "ravishment" like it's going out of style. You're not subtle at all.

[(Anonymous)]

Ngl, my first thought was that this secret might have been made by them.

[scrubber]

Preeeeeetty sure this is Junjou Anon.

Or it's this person:

http://manifestoonmoralmansex.tumblr.com/tagged/the-great-romantic-rape-debate-2014/chrono

Please, enjoy.

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[(Anonymous)]

That's not rape, though, is it? Not if you have a pre-existing relationship where he knows it's OK.

Re: ???

[(Anonymous)]

If they live where there is affirmative assent then unless they check every time, it is rape.

[(Anonymous)]

Translation: I don't understand what "consent" or "rape" means so I'm going to go with the MRA version because feminists are big meanies who don't like sex the way real women like me do!

[silverr]

If he is indeed "doing what pleases you" -- and you are both truly in agreement that that's what's happening -- then imo it's not rape, it's consensual kink.

[(Anonymous)]

This kind of confusion over the definition of rape always perplexes me.

I remember reading The Dice Man and the male author using the word rape repeatedly for the sex scenes, even when the female character was making the first move.

I'm going to be generous and call it a difference in terms between legal rape and the kink definition, but really, it just makes the person sound stupid. The difference between rape and consensual sex is not that tricky.

[(Anonymous)]

there's this thing called non-verbal communication

[diet_poison]

This just seems like an obvious attempt to continue running the rape/ravishment wank that's been going on lately.

At least make it subtle, OP. And not a fail!secret.

[(Anonymous)]

I want to be raped.

[(Anonymous)]

Doesn't matter what you think OP. All women are raped when they have sex. Trufax.